Prince Harry has recently spoken out about the media frenzy surrounding his and Meghan Markle’s separate engagements and the persistent rumors about their relationship. In a candid conversation at the New York Times DealBook Summit, Harry tackled questions about the couple’s decision to attend events individually and the broader implications of their public and private lives.
Throughout 2024, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex have increasingly participated in separate events, sparking speculation and headlines about their relationship. Just this week, Meghan Markle attended the P Honors Fall Gala in Los Angeles, while Prince Harry was in New York at the DealBook Summit. When asked about the separate engagements, Harry humorously responded, “Because you invited me,” eliciting laughter from the audience. However, he quickly addressed the underlying question, emphasizing that the media’s obsession with their every move is not beneficial.
Harry expressed frustration over the relentless rumors, noting, “Apparently we’ve bought or moved houses 10, 12 times. We’ve apparently divorced maybe 10, 12 times as well.” He acknowledged that while he has grown somewhat accustomed to media scrutiny, the misinformation remains a source of irritation. “It’s hard to keep up with, but that’s why you just sort of ignore it,” he said.
In a shift from his previous stance, Harry now directs some of his criticism toward online trolls. “The people I feel most sorry about are the trolls. Their hopes are just built and built and it’s like, yes, then it doesn’t happen—a divorce. So I feel sorry for them. Genuinely, I do,” he remarked with evident sarcasm.
Reflecting on his tumultuous relationship with the media, Harry recounted his lifelong exposure to fabricated stories. “I’ve seen stories written about myself that aren’t exactly based on reality. I’ve seen stories about members of my family, friends, strangers—all sorts of people,” he said. This constant barrage of misinformation has led him to question the validity of the media and its impact on public perception.
Prince Harry also addressed the dangers of social media, particularly for children. He expressed a desire to collaborate with major shareholders of social media companies to enhance online safeguards for privacy and mental health. “I would welcome the chance to sit down with the shareholders because their shareholders are the ones that really are in control. I’m sure they are parents and I’m sure, hopefully, they would agree that kids need to be kept safe,” he stated.
Harry praised Australia’s recent legislation prohibiting children under 16 from using social media and suggested that a similar policy be implemented globally, advocating for an even stricter age limit of 18. He proposed that children should only be able to access social media with a government-issued license to verify their age, ensuring their online safety.
As Prince Harry and Meghan Markle continue to navigate their public and private lives, their efforts to balance personal privacy with their roles as public figures remain a topic of intense interest. Harry’s recent remarks highlight the challenges they face and their ongoing commitment to addressing issues of media scrutiny and online safety. The couple’s strategic approach to their engagements and their advocacy for privacy and mental health reflect their broader mission to create a more respectful and secure digital environment for all.