The Netflix hit Outer Banks has kept fans on the edge of their seats with its thrilling treasure hunts and tight-knit Pogue friendships, but off-screen drama has recently stolen the spotlight. At the center of the storm are Rudy Pankow and Madison Bailey, who played fan-favorite couple JJ Maybank and Kiara Carrera until JJ’s shocking death in the Season 4 finale, which aired in November 2024. Rumors of a falling out between the two actors have swirled for months, fueled by social media unfollows, fan speculation, and insider reports. With Season 5 in production as the final chapter of the series, let’s dive into what really happened between Rudy Pankow and Madison Bailey, piecing together the timeline, the rumors, and the truth behind their strained relationship.
A Friendship That Captivated Fans
When Outer Banks premiered in 2020, Rudy Pankow and Madison Bailey quickly became fan favorites, both for their on-screen chemistry as JJ and Kiara and their off-screen friendship. The series, set in a coastal North Carolina town divided by class, follows a group of teens—John B (Chase Stokes), Sarah (Madelyn Cline), Kiara (Bailey), JJ (Pankow), Pope (Jonathan Daviss), and Cleo (Carlacia Grant)—on a treasure-hunting adventure. JJ and Kiara started as best friends, with JJ’s unrequited crush on Kiara evident from Season 1. Fans, captivated by their dynamic, began shipping the pair relentlessly, a movement that eventually led to their romantic storyline in Season 3.
Off-screen, Rudy and Madison’s bond seemed just as strong. In a May 2020 interview with Access Hollywood, Madison called Rudy her “bestie,” saying, “He is the first person I’m going to call out of everybody. We have a lot of chemistry because of that—because we are really good friends.” They were often seen together at promotional events, sharing silly selfies on Instagram, and supporting each other publicly. A memorable moment came in 2021 when Madison posted a video of her sitting on Rudy’s shoulders, captioning it, “I can always count on @rudeth to make post pro just as fun as filming 😂🤍.” Their camaraderie, both on and off the set in South Carolina, where the show was primarily filmed, endeared them to fans and set the foundation for their characters’ eventual romance.
The Turning Point: Rumors and Relationships
The first signs of trouble emerged around 2020, coinciding with the show’s rising popularity and the personal relationships of its stars. Rudy went public with his girlfriend, Elaine Siemek, an Outer Banks assistant, in November 2020, while Madison confirmed her relationship with Mariah Linney, a former college basketball player, in June 2020 after meeting on TikTok. As JJ and Kiara’s on-screen chemistry grew, fans began shipping Rudy and Madison in real life, flooding their social media with comments urging them to date. This intense “shipping” culture, while a testament to their acting, had unintended consequences.
According to reports, the fan fervor made Rudy and Madison’s real-life partners uncomfortable. By the time Season 2 aired in 2021, fans noticed a shift—Rudy and Madison were interacting less on social media and in interviews, posting fewer photos together compared to the early days. The backlash against Elaine and Mariah was severe, with both women receiving hateful comments online. Rudy defended Elaine in August 2021, addressing the toxicity on Instagram, while Madison clarified that there was never a romantic relationship between her and Rudy, emphasizing their friendship. However, the damage appeared to be done, with their once-close bond showing signs of strain.
The June 2023 Dinner: A Breaking Point
A pivotal moment in the rumored drama occurred in June 2023 during a cast dinner attended by Rudy, Elaine, Madison, and Mariah. According to fan observations and reports, Madison and Mariah unfollowed Elaine on Instagram shortly after the event, and Elaine reportedly removed them from her profile. This social media activity fueled speculation of a rift, with fans theorizing that tensions between the couples had spilled over into Rudy and Madison’s working relationship. An insider later told Life & Style that “something did seem to happen to break that bond” between Rudy and Madison, though specifics remained unclear.
The timing of this dinner coincided with the filming of Season 4, where JJ and Kiara were in a full-fledged relationship. Fans began noticing a lack of chemistry in their scenes, with some even alleging that the actors used stunt doubles for intimate moments. A scene in Season 4, Episode 10, where Kiara lies on JJ’s chest, drew particular scrutiny—viewers claimed the footage never showed Rudy and Madison in the same frame, suggesting the use of doubles. However, a source told Life & Style in November 2024 that both actors were “adamant” they did not use body doubles, though they admitted filming together had become “difficult” at times. The insider added that Rudy felt “terrible” that Elaine was “dragged into this and blamed by some of the fans,” highlighting the emotional toll the situation took on him.
Season 4 Fallout and JJ’s Death
The release of Season 4 in October and November 2024 brought the drama to a head. JJ’s death in the finale—stabbed by his biological father, Chandler Groff, while saving Kiara in Morocco—shocked fans and sparked outrage. Many believed the decision to kill off JJ was influenced by the rumored feud between Rudy and Madison. Social media platforms like X buzzed with accusations, with one user writing, “This cast is so off—no goodbye post for Rudy and appreciation for him and we are expected to think NOTHING happened.” Others pointed to the lack of Rudy in Season 4 cast videos and the absence of joint promotional content as evidence of a fallout.
The cast’s social media behavior added fuel to the fire. Madelyn Cline, who plays Sarah, unfollowed Rudy and Elaine in November 2024, shortly after the finale aired, and Rudy reciprocated by unfollowing Madison and Madelyn by February 25, 2025. Chase Stokes, in a January 2025 interview, praised his “family” in the cast—specifically Jonathan Daviss and Madison—but notably omitted Rudy, fanning the flames of speculation. An insider confirmed to Life & Style that tensions were evident during filming, stating, “They were once very close, but something changed, making their dynamic noticeably strained.”
However, the show’s creators—Josh Pate, Jonas Pate, and Shannon Burke—insisted that JJ’s death was a creative decision planned from the series’ early stages, not a reaction to off-screen drama. They told Teen Vogue that JJ’s sacrifice was meant to embody his “loyal to a fault” nature, setting the stage for the Pogues’ revenge arc in Season 5. A source echoed this to Life & Style, saying, “The writers felt like this was the right time. That doesn’t mean there weren’t tense times between him and Madison, but it would be unfair to say that was the reason he’s leaving.”
Madison’s Emotional Goodbye and Rudy’s New Chapter
Despite the rumors, Madison’s farewell to Rudy after JJ’s death suggested lingering affection. In the cast’s official goodbye video, she became emotional, praising Rudy for bringing JJ to life, a moment that went viral on X. This gesture contrasted with the narrative of a bitter feud, hinting that their relationship, while strained, retained a foundation of respect. Rudy, meanwhile, reflected on his Outer Banks journey in a November 2024 Instagram post, calling it “the biggest thing I’ve ever done” and expressing gratitude for the experience. By April 2025, he had moved on to his next role, joining Maika Monroe and Tyriq Withers in Universal’s adaptation of Colleen Hoover’s novel Reminders of Him, marking a fresh start.
Madison faced her own challenges in the aftermath. On April 23, 2025, reports surfaced of her split from Mariah Linney after nearly five years, with speculation tying the breakup to the earlier Outer Banks drama. The timing of the split, just months after the Season 4 fallout, led some fans to wonder if the pressures of the rumored feud had impacted her personal life as well.
What Really Happened: A Perfect Storm
So, what really happened between Rudy Pankow and Madison Bailey? The evidence suggests a perfect storm of fan pressure, personal relationships, and professional challenges. Their close friendship, while genuine, was tested by the intense shipping culture that Outer Banks’ success unleashed. Fans’ desire for a real-life romance between Rudy and Madison clashed with their existing relationships, creating tension that spilled over into their partners’ lives. The June 2023 dinner appears to have been a breaking point, exacerbating underlying issues and leading to a noticeable distance between the two.
On set, the strain manifested in their dynamic, with Season 4’s lack of chemistry reflecting the real-life challenges they faced. While they denied using body doubles, the difficulty of filming intimate scenes likely stemmed from the awkwardness of their fractured friendship, compounded by the public scrutiny on Elaine and Mariah. JJ’s death, though a planned plot point, became a lightning rod for fan frustration, amplifying rumors of a feud. The subsequent social media unfollows and cast dynamics—such as Madelyn and Chase’s actions—further suggest that the tension extended beyond Rudy and Madison, affecting the broader group.
Yet, there’s no evidence of outright hostility. Madison’s emotional goodbye and Rudy’s reflective post indicate that their bond, while damaged, wasn’t entirely broken. The narrative of a “feud” may be overstated, driven more by fan speculation than concrete conflict. Instead, their story highlights the challenges of maintaining friendships under the spotlight, especially when personal and professional lines blur. The toxic fan behavior, which targeted Elaine and Mariah, likely exacerbated the situation, creating a pressure cooker environment that neither Rudy nor Madison could fully escape.
Looking Ahead to Season 5
As Outer Banks prepares for its fifth and final season, set to premiere in 2026, the focus will shift to the Pogues’ revenge against Groff and the emotional fallout of JJ’s death. Kiara, now a hardened leader, will drive the narrative, with Madison Bailey at the helm. Rudy’s potential return, possibly through flashbacks or visions as speculated in fan theories, could offer closure, though his new role in Reminders of Him suggests he’s moved on professionally. For Madison, Season 5 will be a chance to channel Kiara’s grief into a powerful performance, potentially healing some of the off-screen wounds through her craft.
The saga of Rudy Pankow and Madison Bailey serves as a cautionary tale about the impact of fandom on real lives. While their friendship may never return to its Season 1 peak, their contributions to Outer Banks remain undeniable. As the series sails into its final chapter, fans can only hope that both actors find peace beyond the drama, carrying forward the Pogue spirit of loyalty and resilience in their own ways.