Blake Shelton, the beloved country music star, recently opened up about his life with Gwen Stefani and her three sons, sharing a poignant reflection that has captured the hearts of fans everywhere. In a candid interview, the 48-year-old singer expressed a singular regret about his marriage to Stefani: not meeting her sooner. “We only regret one thing: not meeting sooner. I wish we had more time to have fun with the kids and Gwen, as they make me feel young every day,” Shelton shared, his voice brimming with warmth and sincerity.
The couple, who first met on the set of The Voice in 2014, has been inseparable since they began dating in 2015. Both were navigating high-profile divorces at the time—Shelton from Miranda Lambert and Stefani from Gavin Rossdale. Their shared experiences forged an instant bond, with Shelton previously noting that Stefani “saved my life” during that challenging period. Now, nearly a decade later, their relationship remains a beacon of love and mutual support, centered around family life on their Oklahoma ranch.
Shelton’s regret stems from the joy he’s found in his role as a stepdad to Stefani’s sons—Kingston, Zuma, and Apollo. Since stepping away from The Voice in 2023 after 23 seasons, he’s embraced a slower pace, prioritizing family over his once-hectic schedule of filming and touring. “I don’t want any regrets,” Shelton said in a 2022 interview, a sentiment that echoes his recent reflections. He’s scaled back on tour dates, limiting them to just 18 shows in 2023, to ensure he can be present for the boys. “The whole reason I stepped away from The Voice was to be there more,” he explained.
Life on the ranch has brought Shelton a sense of rejuvenation. He describes the wide-open spaces as “Disneyland” for the boys, who have grown accustomed to the rural lifestyle after years in bustling Los Angeles. “They go down to the creek with a net, turn over rocks, or drive around on a buggy—it’s second nature to them now,” he said proudly. Shelton has also shared his love for fishing and hunting with the boys, activities that Stefani supports as long as her children are happy.
The couple’s family-oriented approach extends beyond daily life. When Shelton proposed to Stefani in 2020, he ensured the kids were part of the moment, choosing to pop the question in Oklahoma with the entire family present. “I wanted everybody to be there in the moment,” he recalled. Their 2021 wedding, held in a chapel Shelton built on the ranch, was similarly focused on family, with the boys playing a central role in the celebration.
Shelton’s connection with Stefani’s sons has been transformative. “Every day I’ve fallen in love with the boys as much as I do with Gwen,” he admitted in 2022. He’s found a new sense of purpose in being a stepdad, a role he initially didn’t anticipate but now cherishes deeply. “It’s a different kind of self-worth,” he noted, describing how the boys have taught him he’s more than just a country singer—he’s someone they rely on.
For Shelton, the regret of not meeting Stefani sooner is bittersweet, as he acknowledges the journey they both had to take to find each other. “We had to go through everything we went through to get here,” he said. But the joy they share now—whether sipping morning coffee, watching a movie, or performing together—makes every moment worth it. As he watches the boys grow and feels the youthful energy they bring, Shelton’s only wish is for more time to soak in the happiness they’ve created together.
Fans of the couple can’t help but be touched by Shelton’s heartfelt words, a reminder that even the biggest stars find their greatest joy in the simple, timeless bonds of family.
