In the dim glow of a Kyiv bomb shelter, where the air hung heavy with the scent of damp concrete and fear, Iryna Zarutska first learned the fragility of life. It was early 2022, mere months after Russia’s full-scale invasion of Ukraine had shattered the nation’s fragile peace. Explosions rattled the earth like the wrath of forgotten gods, and for Irynaâa bright-eyed 20-year-old with dreams stitched from threads of art and ambitionâsurvival became a daily gamble. She huddled there with her mother, Anna, and her two younger siblings, a sister and brother, their whispers the only shield against the chaos outside. Her father, Stanislav, remained behind, bound by Ukraine’s martial laws that forbade men of fighting age from fleeing the front lines. In that suffocating space, Iryna sketched feverishly on scraps of paper, capturing the faces of her family in charcoal strokes that blurred with unshed tears. Little did she know that three years later, in the supposed sanctuary of America, her own life would end in a blur of violence, marked by a phone call that now haunts her loved ones as a chilling prophecy.
Iryna’s story is one of improbable hope amid unrelenting despairâa Ukrainian refugee’s odyssey to rebuild in Charlotte, North Carolina, only to meet a fate that echoes the very war she escaped. On August 22, 2025, the 23-year-old was fatally stabbed on a light rail train, her blood staining the floors of a vehicle meant for mundane commutes. The perpetrator, 34-year-old Decarlos Brown Jr., a man plagued by mental illness and a criminal history, has been charged with first-degree murder and faces federal hate crime enhancements that could lead to the death penalty. But beyond the courtroom drama and the ensuing political firestorm, it is the personal echoes that linger: the final phone call to her mother, a conversation laced with an uncanny tenderness that family members now interpret as an unwitting valediction. “This was it,” Anna Zarutska would later confide to investigators, her voice cracking over a transatlantic line. “She said goodbye in a way that felt… final. Like she knew.”
To understand the profundity of that call, one must first trace Iryna’s path from the rubble of Kyiv to the bustling streets of Charlotte. Born on May 22, 2002, in the heart of Ukraine’s capital, Iryna grew up in a modest apartment block where the Dnipro River’s gentle flow offered a counterpoint to the city’s vibrant pulse. Her mother, Anna, a resilient woman who worked as a seamstress, instilled in her children a fierce appreciation for creativity and community. Stanislav, a mechanic by trade, filled their home with stories of Soviet-era adventures and the quiet dignity of labor. Iryna, the eldest, absorbed it all like a sponge, her talents blooming early. By her teens, she had enrolled at Synergy College in Kyiv, pursuing a degree in art and restoration. Her passion was restorationânot just of faded canvases or cracked pottery, but of lives pieced together from fragments. She volunteered at local museums, delicately repairing icons damaged by time, her fingers nimble and patient. Friends recall her as the girl who could turn a discarded sketchbook into a masterpiece, her laughter a melody that cut through the gray Kyiv winters.
The invasion upended everything. On February 24, 2022, as Russian missiles rained down on civilian neighborhoods, Iryna’s world contracted to the four walls of their bomb shelter. The family had prepared as best they could: canned goods stacked like sentinels, flashlights charged against the blackouts, and a single radio tuned to crackling updates from Ukrainian forces. “We lived like ghosts,” her uncle, Mykola, who now resides in Huntersville, North Carolina, told PEOPLE magazine in an exclusive interview last week. “Huddled in that shelter for months, not knowing if the next boom would be the end. Iryna would draw to keep the little ones calmâpictures of sunny fields, American flags, anything to promise a tomorrow.” It was Mykola’s frantic messages, smuggled via encrypted apps, that prompted the escape. Seeing a photo of his sister Anna and her children crammed into the shelter, their faces gaunt with exhaustion, he pulled strings through Ukrainian diaspora networks to sponsor their flight.
In August 2022, six months into the war, Iryna, Anna, and the siblings boarded a series of buses, trains, and flights that blurred into a haze of checkpoints and tearful goodbyes. Leaving Stanislav behind was the hardest cut; he embraced Iryna at the airport, whispering, “Build the life we couldn’t here. Make us proud.” They arrived in Charlotte under the Uniting for Ukraine program, a Biden administration initiative that fast-tracked humanitarian parole for war refugees. Mykola and his wife welcomed them into their modest home in Huntersville, a suburb 15 miles north of the city center. The contrast was jarring: no air raid sirens, no curfews, just the hum of air conditioners and the scent of barbecue wafting from backyard grills. “America felt like a dream at first,” Anna recalled in a statement released by the family last month. “Iryna would wake up and pinch herself, saying, ‘Mama, lookâno bombs today.'”
Adaptation was swift but not seamless. Language barriers loomed large; Iryna’s English was rudimentary, pieced together from Duolingo apps and patient conversations with neighbors. She dove into classes at a local community college, balancing studies in graphic design with entry-level jobs to support the family. Her first gig was at a retirement community in Huntersville, where she worked as a caregiver’s aide. The irony wasn’t lost on her: the woman who restored ancient art now mended the spirits of the elderly. “She had this heart of gold,” one resident, 82-year-old Evelyn Hargrove, shared at Iryna’s funeral. “I’d tell her stories of my youth, and she’d sketch them right thereâme as a flapper in the ’20s. She made me feel young again.” Iryna’s empathy extended beyond work; she volunteered at animal shelters, fostering stray cats with a gentleness that belied her own displacement. Her uncle remembers weekends spent picnicking in Freedom Park, where Iryna would unfurl her sketchpad, capturing the laughter of children oblivious to her scars.
By early 2025, Iryna’s life had taken root. She had moved out of her uncle’s home in May, sharing an apartment with her boyfriend, a soft-spoken mechanic named Alex whom she met at a Ukrainian cultural festival. Alex, himself a second-generation immigrant from Poland, became her anchorâteaching her to drive on quiet backroads, celebrating her small victories with pierogi dinners. “She was falling in love with the American Dream,” Mykola said, his voice thick with emotion. “Not just the job or the freedom, but the possibility. She talked about opening an art studio one day, restoring pieces for refugeesâturning pain into beauty.” Iryna had landed a part-time job at Zepeddie’s Pizzeria in Charlotte’s South End, a trendy neighborhood pulsing with breweries and galleries. The work was gruelingâlate shifts flipping dough under fluorescent lightsâbut it afforded independence. On August 22, she clocked out around 11 p.m., exhausted but buoyant, texting Alex a heart emoji and a promise: “Home soon, my love. Pizza for breakfast?”
That text would be among her last. Boarding the Lynx Blue Line at Scaleybark Station, Iryna settled into a forward-facing seat, her khaki pants and dark shirt blending into the late-night crowd. Surveillance footage, later released by the Charlotte Area Transit System (CATS) and obtained by CNN, captures the mundane horror: the train gliding through neon-lit tunnels, passengers scrolling phones in weary silence. Behind her sat Decarlos Brown Jr., a homeless man whose life had unraveled under the weight of untreated schizophrenia. Brown’s record was a litany of missed opportunitiesâconvictions for armed robbery, felony larceny, and breaking and entering, punctuated by failed attempts at psychiatric commitment. Just weeks prior, his public defender had filed a motion questioning his competency in an unrelated case. On this night, Brown clutched a kitchen knife, his eyes vacant, muttering to shadows only he could see.
The attack unfolded in seconds. As the train approached the East/West Boulevard station, Brown lunged, plunging the blade into Iryna’s back with mechanical precision. She gasped, collapsing from her seat, blood pooling as she clutched her side. Video shows her stumbling toward the doors, collapsing again on the platform where emergency responders found her minutes later. Despite frantic CPR and a rush to Atrium Health Carolinas Medical Center, Iryna was pronounced dead at 11:47 p.m. Brown fled but was apprehended blocks away, the knife still slick with her blood. “It was random,” Charlotte-Mecklenburg Police Chief Johnny Jennings stated at a press conference. “No prior connection, no words exchanged. A tragedy born of untreated illness.”
News of the stabbing ricocheted globally, igniting outrage in Ukraine and scrutiny in the U.S. Ukrainian Foreign Minister Dmytro Kuleba issued a statement: “Iryna fled bombs for safety, only to find a knife in the land of the free. Our hearts break for her family.” In Charlotte, Mayor Vi Lyles decried systemic failures: “This young woman survived war, only to die on our watch. We must address mental health, transit security, and justice gaps now.” The footage sparked viral fury on social media, with hashtags like #JusticeForIryna trending alongside debates on fare enforcement and urban crime. Pro-Trump activists, including commentator Laura Loomer, seized the narrative, falsely claiming racial motivations and inaction by bystandersâclaims debunked by witnesses who described a scene of collective shock and aid.
Yet amid the clamor, the Zarutska family’s grief unfolded in quieter tones, centered on that final phone call. It came just hours before the stabbing, around 7 p.m. on August 22, as Iryna wrapped up an afternoon shift at the retirement home before heading to the pizzeria. Anna, back in Huntersville after a day of job hunting, had been feeling the weight of separation from Stanislav, who remained in Kyiv amid escalating drone strikes. She dialed Iryna’s number, a ritual born of habit and heartache. “Mama?” Iryna’s voice crackled through, warm but weary. They spoke in Ukrainian, the language of home, for nearly 20 minutesâa lifetime in the currency of refugees.
What made the call prophetic, in retrospect, were the pauses, the uncharacteristic tenderness. Iryna didn’t rush through pleasantries. “Mama, you’ve given me everything,” she said softly, as if reciting from a hidden script. “All my life, you’ve been my strengthâthe way you sewed our clothes in the shelter, sang to us when the bombs fell. I want you to know… I’m so grateful. For Ukraine, for you, for this second chance here.” Anna, sensing something amiss, pressed: “Iryna, what’s wrong? You sound… far away.” A laugh, light as summer rain: “Nothing, Mama. Just thinking. Life’s short, you know? Promise me you’ll take care of yourself. And tell Papa… tell him I love him more than words. That I’m making him proud.” She lingered on memoriesâtheir Kyiv walks along the river, the first sketch Iryna ever showed her, a portrait of Anna smiling under cherry blossoms. “If anything happens,” Iryna added, almost as an afterthought, “remember me like that. Happy. Building.”
Hanging up, Anna felt a chill she couldn’t shake. “It wasn’t her usual call,” she told U.S. Attorney Russ Ferguson during a tearful conversation on September 9, 2025, as he and FBI Special Agent James Barnacle Jr. reached out to offer federal support. “She said ‘if anything happens’âwho says that at 23? It was like she was tying up loose ends, saying goodbye without the word.” Ferguson, fighting back tears at the subsequent press conference, relayed the exchange: “This family has endured war, displacement, and now this unimaginable loss. Iryna’s words to her mother… they break you. She was building a young life, full of promise.” Barnacle echoed the sentiment: “We spoke to her parentsâher father on FaceTime from a bunker in Kyiv. The pain is raw, universal.”
Psychologists might dismiss it as hindsight bias, the brain’s cruel habit of imprinting meaning on chaos. But to the Zarutskas, it was a harbinger, a daughter’s intuition piercing the veil. Stanislav, watching Iryna’s funeral via FaceTimeâhundreds gathering at James Funeral Home, shuttle buses ferrying elderly friends from her workplaceâsobbed through Anna’s retelling. “She knew,” he murmured. “My girl always felt things deeply. Like her artâseeing the cracks before they show.” The service, held on September 5, was a tapestry of cultures: Ukrainian hymns mingling with American gospel, Iryna’s sketches displayed beside photos of her fostering kittens. Over 150 attended, including Ukrainian embassy officials who offered repatriation of her remains. The family declined. “She loved it here,” Mykola explained. “Buried under the flag she dreamed ofâthat’s her peace.”
Iryna’s death has rippled beyond personal loss, fueling reckonings on multiple fronts. In transit policy, Charlotte’s light rail faces overhaul: calls for armed guards, mental health screeners at stations, and zero-tolerance for weapons. CATS reported a 15% uptick in ridership post-incident, but trust eroded; riders like single mother Tanya Ruiz told local news, “I hug my kids tighter now. Iryna could have been any of us.” The criminal justice angle burns hotter. Brown’s historyâmultiple arrests, ignored pleas for commitment by his motherâexposes chasms in North Carolina’s mental health infrastructure. “He needed help, not handcuffs,” his attorney argued in court, but prosecutors counter with the federal indictment, citing the knife’s interstate sourcing as a hook for harsher penalties.
Politically, the case has become a tinderbox. Former President Donald Trump, in a White House video on September 9, branded Brown a “deranged monster,” leveraging the tragedy to advocate military deployments in high-crime cities like D.C. and L.A. “Iryna escaped Putinâs bombs for American safetyâonly to be slaughtered by chaos we can fix,” he thundered, drawing cheers from MAGA rallies. Critics, including Al Jazeera commentators, decry the exploitation: “Ukraine’s muted response stems from fatigue with U.S. culture wars. This isn’t about borders; it’s about broken systems.” Ukrainian expats in North Carolina, like Lyubov, a young professional in Raleigh, express horror laced with resignation. “We fled one violence for another,” she told Al Jazeera. “Iryna’s story? It’s a warning. Safety is illusion.”
Yet amid the debates, Iryna’s legacy endures in quieter ways. Her family launched the Iryna Zarutska Foundation last week, funding art therapy for refugees and mental health outreach in Charlotte. “She restored beauty in broken things,” Anna said in the announcement. “We honor her by mending what we can.” Donations poured inâ$50,000 in the first 48 hoursâfrom pizzeria coworkers, retirement home residents, even strangers moved by her sketches circulating online. Alex, her boyfriend, contributed a portrait: Iryna amid cherry blossoms, eyes alight with that unquenchable spark.
As September’s leaves turn in Charlotte, the city pauses to remember. On the Blue Line, a makeshift memorial blooms at East/West Boulevard: sunflowers (Ukraine’s emblem), candles flickering against the rail’s cold steel, notes in broken English: “Rest in peace, warrior.” For Anna, the healing is tentative. She replays that call in sleepless nights, tracing the love in Iryna’s words like Braille. “It hurts, that foreknowledge,” she confides to Mykola. “But it comforts too. She left nothing unsaid. In her goodbye, she gave us forever.”
Iryna Zarutska’s life was brief, her death a gut punch to the American promise. But in her final whispers to her motherâa tapestry of gratitude, memory, and quiet resolveâshe gifted something rarer than survival: closure. In a world of abrupt endings, that call stands as both omen and elegy, a daughter’s love echoing across oceans and graves. As Stanislav writes from Kyiv, “You were our light, Iryna. And in the dark, you still shine.”