On April 19, 2024, Jodie Foster and Alexandra Hedison marked a significant milestone in their relationship—their 10th wedding anniversary. The couple, known for their intensely private approach to their personal lives, reportedly celebrated this occasion in a way that mirrored the understated elegance of their 2014 wedding: with a secret, intimate gathering that kept the prying eyes of Hollywood at bay. While the day coincided with Foster’s hand and footprint ceremony at the TCL Chinese Theatre in Los Angeles, sources suggest that the couple held a private celebration afterward, reflecting their deep commitment to each other and their shared values of privacy, love, and authenticity. This article delves into the details of their anniversary, the dynamics of their relationship, and the broader context of maintaining a private life in the spotlight of fame as of May 19, 2025.
A Love Story Rooted in Privacy
Jodie Foster, a two-time Oscar-winning actress, and Alexandra Hedison, a renowned photographer and former actress, have built a relationship that thrives away from the public eye. The couple first met in 2013 and, after dating for less than a year, tied the knot in a top-secret ceremony in April 2014. The wedding was so discreet that it only came to light when Foster’s representative confirmed the news to media outlets like E! and Us Weekly. A source at the time told E! that the couple was “totally in love,” a sentiment that has evidently endured over the past decade.
Foster, now 62, and Hedison, 55, have consistently prioritized privacy in their marriage. Foster has a long history of guarding her personal life, a stance shaped by her experiences as a child star who faced intense media scrutiny from a young age. She began acting at three, appearing in commercials before landing her breakout role in Martin Scorsese’s Taxi Driver (1976) at the age of 12. The role earned her an Oscar nomination but also exposed her to the darker side of fame, including a traumatic incident in 1981 when John Hinckley Jr., obsessed with Foster, attempted to assassinate President Ronald Reagan to gain her attention. These experiences likely contributed to her desire to shield her personal life, including her relationship with Hedison, from public consumption.
Hedison, the daughter of actor David Hedison—known for playing Felix Leiter in two James Bond films, Live and Let Die (1973) and Licence to Kill (1989)—also has a nuanced relationship with fame. She pursued acting in the 1990s, appearing in shows like Melrose Place and The L Word, but eventually stepped away from the industry, finding it unfulfilling. In a 2004 interview with The New York Times, Hedison explained, “Actors need to be front and center all the time. That’s not me.” Instead, she turned to photography, a passion inherited from her father, and has since established herself as a respected fine art photographer, with her work exhibited in galleries worldwide, including at the Centro Cultural de Cascais in Portugal and the Kopeikin Gallery in Los Angeles.
The 10th Anniversary: A Day of Dual Celebrations
The couple’s 10th anniversary on April 19, 2024, was a day of dual significance. It coincided with Foster’s hand and footprint ceremony at the TCL Chinese Theatre, a prestigious honor during the 15th annual TCM Classic Film Festival. The event, attended by close friends like Jamie Lee Curtis and Christopher Guest, saw Foster cementing her legacy—literally—in Hollywood history. During her speech, Foster acknowledged the serendipity of the date, noting that it was also her 10th wedding anniversary. She turned to Hedison, who was seated in the front row, and said, “The person that I have to thank the most, really, is my wife Alex, who I cannot believe was so generous to give up our 10-year anniversary day to come and do this with me.” Her words brought Hedison to tears, a rare public display of emotion from a couple that typically keeps such moments private.
Foster’s speech was a poignant reflection of their relationship. “I love you so much, and I’m so grateful for the life we have together,” she told Hedison, as reported by People. The actress also humorously questioned Hedison’s decision to share their special day with the public event, asking, “Like, what are you thinking? How come you didn’t say no?” The exchange highlighted the couple’s dynamic—supportive, loving, and grounded in mutual respect, even amidst the glitz of Hollywood.
While the ceremony was a public affair, sources suggest that Foster and Hedison retreated to a private venue afterward for an intimate anniversary celebration. Given their history of secrecy—evidenced by their unannounced 2014 wedding—it’s likely that the event was a small gathering, possibly at their Los Angeles home or a discreet location, attended only by their closest family and friends. Foster has two sons, Charles (Charlie), 26, and Kit, 23, from her previous relationship with Cydney Bernard, and it’s plausible that they were part of the celebration, along with a select few loved ones who have been privy to the couple’s inner circle.
A Celebration Reflecting Their Values
The nature of their anniversary celebration likely reflected the couple’s shared values of authenticity and simplicity. Despite their high-profile status, Foster and Hedison have often eschewed the trappings of celebrity life. In 2014, after their wedding, they opted for a low-key outing to an art show in Los Angeles rather than an exotic honeymoon, as noted by People. This preference for meaningful, understated moments over lavish displays of wealth or publicity suggests that their 10th anniversary was similarly intimate. Perhaps they shared a quiet dinner, reminisced over the past decade, or exchanged heartfelt gifts—gestures that align with their private, grounded approach to their relationship.
Hedison’s artistic background may have influenced the celebration as well. As a photographer whose work often explores themes of memory, transition, and the subconscious—such as her Ithaka series, which was exhibited in London and Los Angeles—she might have contributed a personal touch, such as a photo collection or a short film capturing their journey together. Foster, known for her reflective nature, might have reciprocated with a thoughtful gesture, perhaps a handwritten letter or a nod to their shared love of art and culture, given their past appearances at events like the Hammer Museum’s Gala in the Garden, which they co-chaired in 2017.
The Challenges of Privacy in Hollywood
The couple’s decision to keep their anniversary celebration private underscores the broader challenges of maintaining a personal life in Hollywood. Foster has long been vocal about her need for privacy, a stance she articulated during her 2013 Golden Globes speech while accepting the Cecil B. DeMille Award. “If you had been a public figure from the time you were a toddler… then maybe you, too, would value privacy above all else,” she said, reflecting on her decades in the spotlight. This philosophy has guided her relationship with Hedison, which has largely remained out of the public eye, save for rare appearances at events like the 2021 Cannes Film Festival, where Foster was honored with the Honorary Palme d’Or, and the 2024 Golden Globes.
Hedison, too, has embraced this approach. Despite her own experiences with fame—both as an actress and during her high-profile relationship with Ellen DeGeneres from 2000 to 2004—she has chosen to focus on her art rather than the celebrity circuit. Her Instagram posts about Foster are infrequent but heartfelt, such as her 2023 birthday tribute where she wrote, “Loving you is easy as cake. Happy birthday, beautiful,” alongside a photo of Foster with a birthday cake. These glimpses into their life together reveal a deep, genuine connection that doesn’t rely on public validation.
A Legacy of Love and Resilience
As of May 19, 2025, Jodie Foster and Alexandra Hedison’s marriage remains a testament to their resilience and commitment to each other. Their 10th anniversary, though largely private, was a milestone that symbolized not just their love but also their ability to navigate the complexities of fame while staying true to themselves. Foster’s career continues to flourish—she recently starred in True Detective: Night Country and was nominated for a Golden Globe for her role in Nyad—while Hedison’s photography career thrives, with upcoming projects like her role in Natalie Shirinian’s film Ponchik, alongside Angela Sarafyan, as reported by Cosmopolitan.
Their relationship offers a counter-narrative to the often tumultuous romances of Hollywood, where breakups and scandals frequently dominate headlines. Instead, Foster and Hedison have built a partnership rooted in mutual support, shared passions, and a fierce commitment to privacy. Their secret 10th anniversary celebration, much like their wedding a decade earlier, was a reflection of this ethos—a quiet, meaningful moment that honored their love without the need for public fanfare. For a couple that has spent a decade in their “own world,” as a source once described to People, this approach feels not only fitting but profoundly authentic.
