It was a crisp autumn evening on October 15, 2025, when the world turned its attention to a small, intimate press conference held in Los Angeles. The setting was unassumingâa modest room with a single microphone stand and a backdrop of neutral gray curtains. Yet, the atmosphere crackled with anticipation. For years, fans and media alike had speculated about the relationship between two Hollywood icons, Keanu Reeves and Matthew Perry, ever since Perryâs controversial remarks in his 2022 memoir, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing. The jabs at Reeves, questioning why he “still walks among us” while others like River Phoenix and Heath Ledger had passed, had sparked a firestorm of debate. Perryâs subsequent apologies and promises to remove those references from future editions had done little to quell the curiosity. Now, three years after Perryâs tragic death in October 2023 from a ketamine overdose, Keanu Reeves was finally breaking his silence.
The room fell silent as Reeves stepped to the microphone. At 60, he carried the same quiet dignity that had endeared him to millions, his dark hair streaked with silver, his expression a blend of resolve and melancholy. Dressed in a simple black jacket and jeans, he looked more like a man preparing to share a personal story than a global superstar. The gathered journalists leaned forward, notebooks and cameras at the ready, as he began to speak in his soft, measured tone.
âIâve thought long and hard about whether to address this,â Keanu started, his voice steady but laced with emotion. âMatthewâs passing hit me harder than I let on. We werenât close, not in the way people might think, but our paths crossed in ways that left an impression. Iâve stayed quiet because I didnât want to add to the noise, but I think itâs time to set the record straightâfor his sake, and for mine.â
The crowd murmured, sensing the weight of what was to come. Reeves took a deep breath, his eyes scanning the room before settling on a distant point, as if recalling a memory. âMatthew and I first met in 1988 on the set of A Night in the Life of Jimmy Reardon. I was 23, he was 19. We were both young, trying to figure out this crazy industry. River Phoenix was there too, and the three of us hit it off. Weâd hang out after shoots, talking about everythingâmovies, life, dreams. River was the glue, you know? He had this light about him. When he died in â93, it broke something in all of us.â
A hush fell over the room as Reeves paused, his voice thickening. âMatthew took it hard. I remember seeing him at the Viper Room that night, just after it happened. He was shaken, trying to process it. We didnât talk much after that. Life pulled us in different directionsâme into action films, him into Friends. But I always wondered how he was doing. Addictionâs a beast, and I knew he was fighting it.â
The reference to Perryâs well-documented struggles with substance abuse resonated deeply. The Los Angeles County Medical Examinerâs report had confirmed that Perryâs death at 54 was due to the âacute effects of ketamine,â a revelation that had shocked the world and led to the prosecution of several individuals, including Dr. Salvador Plasencia, who pleaded guilty earlier that year. Reevesâs words seemed to bridge the gap between past and present, offering a rare glimpse into a shared history.
âThen came the memoir,â Keanu continued, his tone shifting to one of reflection. âWhen those excerpts came out in 2022, I was surprised. Hurt, maybe, but not angry. I figured it was his way of grappling with lossâRiverâs, Chris Farleyâs, all the talents weâve lost too soon. I didnât take it personally. But the public did, and I saw the backlash. Matthew apologized, and I appreciated that. We even exchanged a few messages. He said he picked my name at random, that he was a fan. I believed him.â
The revelation that the two had communicated privately stunned the audience. Rumors had swirled for years about a feud, fueled by tabloid headlines and social media speculation. Reevesâs admission painted a different pictureâone of reconciliation rather than rivalry.
âI never got the chance to meet him in person after that,â Keanu said, his voice dropping. âWhen I heard heâd passed, I felt this⌠regret. Not for the memoir stuff, but for not reaching out more. I went to his memorial, quietly, just to pay my respects. His family didnât know I was there, and thatâs how I wanted it. But today, I want to say something I wish Iâd said to him.â
He straightened, his gaze now firm. âMatthew was a gifted actor. His Chandler Bing brought joy to millions, and his honesty about his struggles helped others. He wasnât perfectânone of us areâbut he had a heart. The things he wrote about me, I forgive him. I hope he forgives me for not being a better friend when he needed one. And to his family, Iâm sorry for your loss. Matthewâs legacy isnât defined by his mistakes, but by the laughter he gave us.â
The room erupted in a mix of applause and soft gasps. Journalists scribbled furiously, cameras flashed, and social media lit up with the news. Reevesâs words were a masterclass in grace, turning a potential scandal into a moment of healing. But he wasnât done.
âIâve been asked why I âstill walk among us,ââ he said with a faint smile, echoing Perryâs infamous line. âI donât have an answer. Luck, maybe. Or maybe itâs a reminder to keep going, to honor those weâve lost by living well. River, Heath, Chris, Matthewâtheyâre part of me. I carry them with me, and Iâll keep doing what I can to make a difference, like the childrenâs hospital fund I started in their memory.â
The mention of the Keanu Reeves Foundation, which had quietly raised millions for pediatric care since 2019, added another layer to his response. It was a subtle nod to his philanthropy, often overshadowed by his on-screen persona. The audience sensed the depth of his character, a man who had faced personal tragediesâhis own near-fatal motorcycle accidents, the stillbirth of his daughter Ava in 1999, and the loss of his girlfriend Jennifer Syme in 2001âyet chose to respond with kindness.
As the press conference wound down, a reporter asked, âDo you think Matthew would approve of what youâve said today?â
Keanu paused, considering. âI hope so. He had a sharp wit, but he also had a good soul. If he were here, I think heâd crack a joke, maybe give me a hug. Iâd like to think weâd have found our way back to each other.â
With that, he stepped away from the microphone, leaving the room in stunned silence. The story spread like wildfireâheadlines blazed with phrases like âKeanuâs Heartfelt Tributeâ and âReeves Redeems Perryâs Legacy.â Fans took to X, posting tributes that merged admiration for both actors. One user wrote, âKeanu proving once again why heâs the best of us. Matthew would be proud.â Another added, âThis is what Hollywood needsâcompassion, not conflict.â
In the days that followed, Perryâs sister, Caitlin, released a statement thanking Reeves for his words. âKeanuâs kindness means the world to our family,â she said. âMatt would have been moved.â The gesture cemented Reevesâs reputation as a man of integrity, while offering a bittersweet closure to a chapter marked by misunderstanding.
As winter approached, the story faded from the headlines, but its impact lingered. Keanu returned to filming John Wick: Chapter 5, channeling his emotions into his craft. Meanwhile, a renewed interest in Perryâs work sparked a Friends marathon on streaming platforms, with viewers rediscovering his comedic genius. The two actors, once linked by a fleeting controversy, were now united in a narrative of redemption and respectâa testament to the power of forgiveness in the face of loss.
And somewhere, in the quiet spaces between memories, it seemed as though Matthew Perry might have smiled, knowing his words had finally found their peace.